Branch Blog Vol 10: Honoring Mom
How to Make Your Mom Feel Like the Queen She Is on Your Wedding Day
Your wedding day is not just about you and your partner—it’s also about celebrating the people who’ve loved you along the way. And no one deserves more love and appreciation than your mom! From late-night pep talks to always knowing how to fix your hair disaster, she’s been your biggest cheerleader. So why not make her feel like royalty on your big day? Here are some sweet and sentimental ways to honor the amazing woman who raised you. Please note, these are just ideas do not feel like you need to do every single one!!
1. Make Her Your Something Blue
Forget the garter or the shoes—your mom deserves the honor of being your “something blue”! Whether it’s a piece of her jewelry with a blue gemstone, a delicate handkerchief embroidered with a heartfelt message, or a little blue ribbon sewn into your dress, it’s the perfect way to carry her love with you as you walk down the aisle. (You could even ask her to wear a blue dress!)
2. Give Her a Bouquet to Walk Down the Aisle
Let your mom have her moment! Give her a beautiful bouquet that matches yours (or has a pop of her favorite flower) to carry down the aisle. It’s a small touch that makes a big impact—and shows that she’s not just a guest, but a VIP.
3. Ask Her to Make a Speech
No one knows you like your mom does, and she’s probably bursting with stories and words of wisdom. Give her a chance to share those memories and say a few heartfelt (and maybe hilarious) words at your reception. It’s guaranteed to be one of the most memorable parts of the night.
4. Get Ready Together
There’s no better way to start your big day than sharing it with your mom. Whether you’re sipping mimosas or fighting back happy tears, invite her to get ready with you. Let her help with your hair, your dress, or just give you that much-needed pep talk. These are the moments you’ll both cherish forever.
5. Plan a First Look with Your Mom
First looks aren’t just for couples! Sneak away with your mom for a private first look and watch her reaction when she sees you all dolled up. Have tissues on hand—both of you will need them. Plus, the photos will be absolutely priceless.
6. Walk Down the Aisle Together
Who says dads get all the glory? If your mom has been your rock, have her by your side as you walk down the aisle. Or, if both parents are special to you, why not have them both escort you? It’s your day, and you get to write the rules!
7. Create a Night-Before Survival Kit
Make your mom feel pampered and relaxed with a pre-wedding survival kit. Include her favorite cozy socks, a calming face mask, her go-to snacks, and a heartfelt letter reminding her just how much she means to you. It’s the perfect way to show her that you’re thinking of her, even amidst the chaos.
8. Write Her a Morning-Of Letter
Before you say your vows, write your mom a letter telling her just how grateful you are for everything she’s done. Let her know how much her love and guidance have shaped you. Have it delivered while she’s getting ready, and prepare for some happy tears!
Celebrate Your Queen!
Your mom is one of the most important people in your life, and your wedding day is the perfect opportunity to make her feel like the queen she truly is. From sentimental gestures to moments full of laughter, there are endless ways to honor her. Make sure she feels loved and appreciated because, let’s be honest—none of this would be possible without her!
We loved having our moms represent our something blue!